If first dates make you nervous, you're not alone。

第一次約會(huì)緊張?不只你一個(gè)噢。

Getting to know a complete stranger is a daunting task, and small talk about the weather or your March Madness bracket probably won't shed much light on your compatibility. There's no real way around the initial question-and-answer session, but how can you avoid sounding like you're interviewing your date for a job?

了解一個(gè)完全陌生的人，是會(huì)讓人怯步的事情。而閑談天氣或者你的籃球聯(lián)賽競(jìng)猜(風(fēng)靡美國(guó)的賭球運(yùn)動(dòng))，并不能顯示出你倆是否合拍。第一次約會(huì)的問答環(huán)節(jié)沒有什么真正的方法可言，但是如何避免提問時(shí)聽起來像給約會(huì)對(duì)象面試工作呢?

Inspired by a Reddit thread on r/AskWomen, we asked our Facebook and Twitter communities what questions they'd love to hear on a first date. Here are 15 suggestions from Redditors and HuffPost Women followers:

受Reddit(北美著名社交新聞網(wǎng)站)上一則女性第一次約會(huì)調(diào)查的文章啟發(fā)，我們?cè)谀樧V網(wǎng)和推特上收集了人們第一次約會(huì)時(shí)想聽到的問題。以下是Reddit用戶和赫芬頓郵報(bào)的女性讀者給出的15條建議：

15 Questions To Ask On A First Date

初次約會(huì)15問

1. "What do you love?"

“你喜歡什么?”

2. "Tell me your favorite story."

“給我講講你最愛的故事吧。”

3. "What was your happiest moment in the past month?"

“過去一個(gè)月里，你什么時(shí)候最開心?”

4. "How was your day?"

“你今天過得怎么樣?”

5. "What is your happiest memory?"

“你最快樂的記憶是什么?”

6. "What does your future look like?"

“未來有什么計(jì)劃?”

7. "How are you contributing to the world?"

“你對(duì)世界的貢獻(xiàn)是什么?”

8. "What are your favorite books?"

“你最愛看哪些書?”

9. "Which fictional character do you relate to the most?"

“你覺得哪個(gè)虛構(gòu)的人物特性最像你?”

10. "What's your favorite quote?"

“你最喜歡的格言是什么?”

11. "What do you wish more of your friends would do with you?"

“你希望有更多的朋友和你一起做什么事情?”

12. "What's your favorite thing about yourself?"

“你最愛自己的哪一點(diǎn)?”

13. "Are you spontaneous?"

“你是個(gè)隨興的人么?”

14. "What motivates you in life?"

“你的生活動(dòng)力是什么?”

15. "What's the best compliment you've ever received?"

“你收到過的最棒的贊美是什么?”