The female mind has always been a complete mystery to most men and theirenigmaticthoughts and actions almost impossible to decode - until now。

Finally the closely-held secret of whether a woman fancies someone has been exposed and experts have found it is all in the eyes。

A new study looked at how and where women glance after a man makes initial eye contact and found this shows him all he needs to know about his chances of romance。

What happens in the 45 seconds after meeting makes it crystal clear if love is in the air or whether the hapless male suitor will get the cold shoulder, experts have said。

Life coach Ali Campbell says in his book 'More than Just Sex' that the look men want to see is her looking down and then moving her eyes in a sweeping motion across the floor because it almost certainly means that she is attracted to you。

This glance means that she is checking her internal emotions, in short, she likes you but is working out how much。

And in a complete reversal the disinterested, shy or bashful look sideways a woman often gives is not the brush-off most men thought it was。

It is in fact the opposite。

If a woman looks away for up to 45 seconds and then stares you straight in the eye it is another sure sign that she is interested because she is thinking hard about whether you are a suitable partner。

If after the man makes eye contact she instantly looks over his head or stares straight back at him it is almost certainly curtains。

Also if she touches her hair she is attracted to you and if she twirls the ends then she really likes you。

(Read by Emily Cheng. Emily Cheng is a journalist at the China Daily Website。)

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(Agencies) 女人的心思對大多數(shù)男人而言總是那么深不可測，直到現(xiàn)在女人們謎一般的想法和行為還是令人費解。

終于，專家發(fā)現(xiàn)了女人芳心暗藏之秘所，原來是在眼神之中。

一項新研究觀察了女人在和男人初次目光接觸后眼神如何變化，以及把目光投向何處，發(fā)現(xiàn)男人可以從中得知他所要知道的一切——有戲還是沒戲。

專家說，是愛情即將降臨，還是不走運的男性追求者就要被拒絕，見面45秒后結(jié)果就清晰可見。

生活教練阿里 坎貝爾在他的書《不只是性》中寫道，男人想看到的“動心”表現(xiàn)是女人往下看，然后視線在地上掃來掃去，因為這基本上表示女人對你有意思。

這種掃視意味著她在審視內(nèi)心的情感，簡而言之，她喜歡你，但正在掂量有多喜歡你。

女人經(jīng)常會漠然或害羞地看向一邊，這根本不是大多數(shù)男人以為的在表示拒絕。

事實上，正好相反。

如果一個女人向一邊看了45秒，然后又直直地正視你的眼睛，這確定無疑地表示她對你感興趣，因為她正在努力思考你是不是一個合適的伴侶。

如果在男人和她目光接觸后，她立刻把視線移到他頭頂，或直直地盯著他，這基本上就可以確定沒戲了。

另外，如果她觸摸自己的頭發(fā)，那么她對你有意思，而如果她捻弄發(fā)尾，那么她真的很喜歡你。