7. You cannot be popular with everybody
你無(wú)法取悅每個(gè)人
It’s just chemistry. There are people who will rub you up the wrong way, will be bitchy, and will be downright unhelpful in the workplace. You can adopt a few avoidance strategies to reduce the fallout. Get over it and enjoy the company of the real friends you have。
只不過(guò)是個(gè)化學(xué)反應(yīng)而已。在職場(chǎng)上有些人會(huì)惹惱你，有些人會(huì)讓你抓狂，有些人對(duì)你絲毫起不到幫助作用。你可以采取一些規(guī)避策略以減少對(duì)你的影響�？朔切┎焕绊懴硎苣愕暮门笥雅惆橹愕拿篮脮r(shí)光。
8. You learn from failure
你要從失敗中學(xué)習(xí)經(jīng)驗(yàn)教訓(xùn)
Everybody screws up. You know that perfection is impossible. Every time you have a disaster, do not beat yourself up. Just ask yourself how you could have avoided the trap or planned it better. In this way you can learn a few life lessons from failure。
每個(gè)人都有搞砸的時(shí)候，人生不可能始終完美無(wú)缺。每次遭遇災(zāi)難你不要責(zé)怪自己，自己想辦法如何避免落入陷阱或做個(gè)比較好的計(jì)劃。這樣你可以從失敗中學(xué)習(xí)一些人生的經(jīng)驗(yàn)教訓(xùn)。
9. Nobody else will praise you
沒(méi)有人會(huì)表?yè)P(yáng)你
Time to give yourself a pat on the back for all your achievements. Don’t be afraid to list them in your head when you get discouraged. Give yourself a score for each finished task. This keeps you strong when facing life’s harsh realities。
對(duì)于你自己取得的成就，要自己表?yè)P(yáng)一下自己。氣餒時(shí)不要害怕不要心慌，每完成一個(gè)任務(wù)要給自己打個(gè)分?jǐn)?shù)，這會(huì)讓你堅(jiān)強(qiáng)地面對(duì)殘酷的現(xiàn)實(shí)生活。
10. Toxic company is bad for you
消極的朋友對(duì)你沒(méi)好處
You know the people I mean. These are the whiners, the pessimists, the miserable ones, the cheap ones, the nasty types, and the prejudiced. They make a lousy team. Try to gravitate towards the optimistic and passionate people who will help you see the brighter side of life。
你知道我所指的這類(lèi)人：牢騷滿腹者、悲觀主義者、悲慘可憐者、小氣不大度的人、脾氣不好的人、有偏見(jiàn)的人，這類(lèi)人會(huì)讓整個(gè)團(tuán)隊(duì)都變得糟糕不堪。盡量和樂(lè)觀充滿激情的人相處，有助于你看到生活光明的一面。
11. Money is tight
資金很緊張
Nobody wants to be stalked by debt or creditors. You have to work out how best to stay within your budget. Think of ways to save, like having packed lunches. Never go shopping without a list. Avoid impulsive buys. Use cash as much as you can. Leave the credit cards at home as they tend to lull you into a fantasy world。
沒(méi)人愿意債務(wù)纏身或成為欠債的人，生活開(kāi)支費(fèi)用最好不要超出預(yù)算。想辦法節(jié)省一下預(yù)算，像午飯吃便當(dāng);去購(gòu)物時(shí)拉一個(gè)清單，避免沖動(dòng)購(gòu)物;盡量用現(xiàn)金消費(fèi)，把信用卡放在家里，因?yàn)樾庞每ㄏM(fèi)起來(lái)沒(méi)有概念。
12. Invest in kindness
善心投資
Doing acts of kindness every day to people at work or those in difficulty will pay handsome dividends. People will return the kindness. Investing in kindness is like having savings in the bank. They will always earn a little interest. What goes around comes around. There is also an added bonus in that it makes you feel good for a while。
每天為同事或者有困難的人慷慨解囊做些善事，人們會(huì)回報(bào)你的善舉。投資善事就像在銀行里存錢(qián)，總會(huì)賺取些許利潤(rùn)回報(bào)，善有善報(bào)。另外還有一個(gè)好處，做善事會(huì)讓你很長(zhǎng)一段時(shí)間都感覺(jué)良好。
13. Be accountable for your behavior
你要對(duì)自己的行為負(fù)責(zé)
If you behave badly, rudely or take unnecessary risks, then you have to be totally accountable for what you have done. You have to take the responsibility for your behavior. Another harsh lesson from the life arena! Taking the consequences, not blaming others and apologizing for harm done have to be on your to do list。
如果你的表現(xiàn)不好、粗魯或冒險(xiǎn)，那么你就得對(duì)你的所作所為完全負(fù)責(zé)。你要為你的行為負(fù)責(zé)。從人生大舞臺(tái)上學(xué)到另外一個(gè)嚴(yán)酷的現(xiàn)實(shí)教訓(xùn)!承擔(dān)后果不是責(zé)備他人，自己要對(duì)傷害性的所作所為道歉。
14. Look forward
要向前看
There is no escape. Life is wonderful but it is really hard work. Now is the time to start afresh。
不要逃避現(xiàn)實(shí)。生活很美好但也很艱難，從現(xiàn)在開(kāi)始重新生活。
“All the world is full of suffering. It is also full of overcoming。” – Helen Keller
“盡管世界充滿了磨難，但戰(zhàn)勝磨難的例子也比比皆是。”——海倫-凱勒
